{"id":75163,"date":"2024-04-03T04:52:00","date_gmt":"2024-04-03T09:52:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.success.com\/?p=74798"},"modified":"2024-11-05T14:06:08","modified_gmt":"2024-11-05T20:06:08","slug":"our-relationship-with-money","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.success.com\/our-relationship-with-money\/","title":{"rendered":"From Our CEO: How Our Relationship With Money Is Influenced by Our Past\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Is it true that our relationship with money is a direct reflection of <a href=\"https:\/\/lebaron-black.byu.edu\/what-impact-do-parents-have-on-their-childrens-financial-future\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">our parents\u2019 or guardians\u2019 attitudes toward finances<\/a>? This question was posed to me at a conference several years ago, and it has stuck with me. While it seems obvious that our childhood experiences play a significant role in shaping our behaviors as adults, their profound impact on our <a href=\"https:\/\/www.success.com\/how-to-set-financial-goals\/\">financial goals<\/a>, decisions, and how we think about money is certainly something I underestimated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-our-past-influences-our-relationship-with-money-nbsp\">How our past influences our relationship with money&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Growing up, my parents\u2019 views on money were starkly different. My mother enjoyed the hunt for a good deal, proudly discovered ways to use coupons and believed in saving for a rainy day. On the other hand, my father believed in the value of a reputable brand, prioritized quality over quantity and cherished unique experiences. Growing up with consumer models that were complete opposites was certainly confusing for me as a child, but it imparted valuable lessons on the importance of both saving and investing, as well as the power of choice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The concept of choice has become a recurring theme in my financial journey. So, I wondered: How has the psychology of money influenced my decisions (both big and small) and how might I improve my financial success in the future?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-psychology-of-money-on-financial-decisions-nbsp\">The psychology of money on financial decisions&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>I am not a financial expert by any means. However, I am constantly trying to improve all aspects of myself and seek to identify where I might remove roadblocks to achieve greater success. Pondering this triggered a deep dive into my psychology with money.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I asked myself:&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Do I have an abundant (plentiful) or scarcity (frugal) mindset when it comes to saving\/spending\/<a href=\"https:\/\/www.success.com\/investing-basics\/\">investing<\/a>\/donating?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What childhood experiences, memories and stories have influenced these mindsets?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Looking back, how have my finances been positively or negatively impacted by these deeply ingrained mindsets?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Where do I need to let go of the past and shift my personal narrative to cultivate a more robust financial future?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>By unraveling the threads connecting childhood and financial decisions, I gained valuable insights that will empower me to make intentional choices, ultimately shaping a more secure and prosperous financial future. 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However, I am constantly trying to improve all aspects of myself and seek to identify where I might remove roadblocks to achieve greater success. Pondering this triggered a deep dive into my psychology with money.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>I asked myself:&nbsp;<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:list -->\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><!-- wp:list-item -->\n<li>Do I have an abundant (plentiful) or scarcity (frugal) mindset when it comes to saving\/spending\/<a href=\"https:\/\/www.success.com\/investing-basics\/\">investing<\/a>\/donating?<\/li>\n<!-- \/wp:list-item -->\n\n<!-- wp:list-item -->\n<li>What childhood experiences, memories and stories have influenced these mindsets?<\/li>\n<!-- \/wp:list-item -->\n\n<!-- wp:list-item -->\n<li>Looking back, how have my finances been positively or negatively impacted by these deeply ingrained mindsets?<\/li>\n<!-- \/wp:list-item -->\n\n<!-- wp:list-item -->\n<li>Where do I need to let go of the past and shift my personal narrative to cultivate a more robust financial future?<\/li>\n<!-- \/wp:list-item --><\/ul>\n<!-- \/wp:list -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>By unraveling the threads connecting childhood and financial decisions, I gained valuable insights that will empower me to make intentional choices, ultimately shaping a more secure and prosperous financial future. And maybe even more importantly, as a parent, I am evaluating the experiences and lessons that I may have imparted on my children regarding money, and how those lessons may need to change.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>This exercise required both self-reflection and examination of past experiences. It was truly transformative for me, and I hope it will be for you, too.<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph -->\n<p>Amy Somerville, CEO of SUCCESS Enterprises<\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->\n\n<!-- wp:paragraph {\"fontSize\":\"small\"} -->\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size\"><em>This article originally appeared in the May\/June 2024 issue of\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/success.com\">SUCCESS<\/a> magazine.\u00a0Photo courtesy of Mike Davello<\/em><\/p>\n<!-- \/wp:paragraph -->","tag_names":[],"post_attachment_urls":[],"author_email":"amy@success.com","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.success.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/75163","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.success.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.success.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.success.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/32452"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.success.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=75163"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.success.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/75163\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.success.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/75136"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.success.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=75163"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.success.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=75163"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.success.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=75163"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}